When you're married to your ideas you are at odds with your reality
Here's a shift you can make today:
Let your life guide you. No matter what you have planned or how you thought things would work out, stay open to what your life is showing you.
Ask yourself:
What is the bigger goal I am moving towards? Forgetting timelines and logistics, what do I really want to create? What constraints have I put on myself that are making things feel constrictive or stressful?
Rewrite your belief:
When you have an idea that you want to put into the world there is the way you envision it getting done in the beginning and then.....then there is how it actually gets done. And to actually get it done, you sometimes have to loosen your grip on the original plans.
The purpose of the plan is to give you the momentum to move forward. Plans give us an energy boost and a feeling of "I can do this." Plans move our energy just enough to create some space for us to move from.
Plans are the inspiration. They don't have to be the actual path.
Your path is unique to you and it can only truly be built one step at a time. Each step reveals the next.
Take a moment to exhale and let that sink in. Your path is unique to you. Your plans got you going. Let them shift so you can actually get to where you want to go.
The real shift is this: when you connect to what really matters (your vision, your driving purpose), does it really matter how you get there? What part of you is holding on to your original plans? It might be the part of you that is afraid of being wrong, or the part of you that has trouble letting go of control and trusting.
Do you want to be right or do you want to make progress?
Take this with you:
When you are married to your ideas, you are at odds with reality. What are you working towards right now? Where are you feeling stuck? Where is there tension between your ideas and your reality?
How can you meet that tension with presence and understanding? Let your ideas melt away and really look at what's showing up.
What else might be possible? How could this be easier and more ease-filled?
Newest Offering: Guided meditation for getting into alignment and letting go of what's keeping you stuck
Alignment doesn’t have to be big bold moves and you don't need to know where you want to go in order to start.
Gain the clarity and confidence to make the choices towards a life that feels truly aligned and alive for you.
This is a recorded session that includes meditation, guided journaling, and breath-work.
